How the words influence our feelings
Our words influence our feelings very deeply.
I have a lot of clients coming for sessions. People often tell me that they do not want to feel sad. OR, they do not want to be fearful. And whenever they say this, they actually mean to communicate that they wish to be happy.
And then I ask them that if they don’t wish to feel sad, then what it is that they want to feel. If you don’t want to be fearful, then what it is that you want to feel instead. And when they change their statement that they want to feel happy or feel strong, their body language changes, their whole personality changes, and they start smiling.
In the same way, people tell me that they have to lose weight, OR, they have to be happy, they have to exercise, they have to quit smoking” etc…
They do not realize that the words “HAVE TO” tie them in rules & regulations. You know WHY? Because we have been listening from our parents since childhood:
“you have to clean your room”.
Because we have been listening from our teachers:
“you have to do your homework”.
OR from the society:
“you have to be a good person” etc…
So, the words ‘I have to’ or ‘you have to’ tie us into rules & regulations. As humans our basic instinct is not to be trapped in the rules & regulations.
If we choose to do something we feel in command.
That’s why I tell my clients, always use the words; ‘I CHOSE TO;
’I chose to be happy’
‘I chose to lose weight’
‘I chose to exercise’
‘I chose to be a non-smoker etc…
As soon as we make a choice, we are not only happily ready to fulfill it, but also free ourselves from those rules and regulations.
Such is the power of communication.
Such is the power of words.
With the right words, with the right communication, we can completely change our whole personality… we can bring positive influence in our lives…
Words are very powerful. They can make us or break us. So, try Hypnotherapy, free yourself from negative programming and live with positivity and happiness…
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