A 26-year-old beautiful, kind and loving young girl came to my office and started crying in front of me “I don’t know why she hates me so much… I don’t know why I feel like killing her sometimes…” She wanted to know why she feels like killing her own mother. Her relationship with her mother had been challenging ever since she could think of it. She was moved to tears when she said “was this why she gave birth to me… so she could unnecessarily take her frustrations out on me? Why she blames me for anything that is not working out well in her life.”
This is an example of a painful relationship. This relationship may be with a family member – with parents, with siblings, with a colleague, with a companion or a lover. But these relationship issues should be resolved timely, otherwise they will tend to develop with time, and gradually each individual will start reacting differently to those issues – those circumstances and emotions, and then it will be hard to resolve those issues.
Remember, as I stated in one of my articles, every relationship comes with 4 things –
One, Karmic influence from the past – our past Karmas play a huge role in defining our relationships with others. No one can force or decide for anyone to stay in a relationship beyond Karmic influence or fulfilment of Karmic debts.
Second, an expiry date – every relation has a time limit attached to it. When the time comes for it to end, it will end. No one can force or decide for anyone to stay in a relationship beyond the time limit of the relationship. As, every relationship has an expiry date.
Third, free will of the people involved – every person involved in any relationship has the choice and free will to leave or to stay. As individuals, we have the right and freedom to choose what we want and do not want. No one can force or decide for anyone to stay in a relationship beyond the choice and free will of any person
And lastly, purpose – behind every relationship there is a purpose. When the purpose, whether physical, mental, emotional or spiritual, gets fulfilled, the individuals involved in the relationship may choose to leave or stay. So, once the purpose is accomplished, No one can force or decide for anyone to stay in a relationship.
Everybody experiences relationship issues Sooner or later Throughout their life. And as you know, an unhealthy relationship may affect you very badly. Sometimes you may feel insecure, sometimes frustrated or confused or angry.
You may be surprised, but Love, forgiveness, empathy and kindness with a Positive, Loving & Peaceful mindset are at the foundation level of a healthy relationship. Having feelings of revenge, hatred, loathing, envy or disgust means that you are still holding on to it.
With the help of Past Life Regression & Hypnotherapy, you can build a stronger and better relationship with yourself, with your family members, colleagues, companion or a lover. And then you would be able to build a stronger and better relationship with the world…
Try Hypnotherapy or Past Life Regression Therapy today!